Thursday, 28 February 2013

Touching story:The Ordeal of a former Virgin

 




Got this article from Bella and the article was touching and so i decided to share it with the MacD family:

I am a young girl of 20, and a 300-Level student. In November 2011, things fell apart between my boyfriend and I was madly in love with him at the time and he had denied me in the presence of my friends. I was finding it very hard to move on; I started drinking heavily, I made friends with a neighbor of mine, we stayed in the same hostel off-campus. I started sharing my problems with him and we soon became really close.

One day, one of my friends who came to spend some time with me invited her boyfriend over.  I decided to give them little space so I left to my neighbour’s room, after spending some time on returning to my room I realised my friend’s boyfriend had slept off, it was about past 11 pm and a face-off was going on between two rival cults in school making it very risky to move at night. My friend pleaded with me to pass the night at my neighbour’s room because it was early in the semester and other students were not yet in school. So I went back to his room and asked if I could spend the night and he said yes. Later on that night he started acting up trying to touch me, I pleaded and begged him that I could not do it and was still a virgin, but he didn’t listen. I had little or no strength that night because I was drunk as usual, then he forced himself on me.


After the incident he begged me that he was sorry and he never believed that I was saying the truth when I told him I was a virgin;  then he started asking me out. I was reluctant at first but I couldn’t speak out, I couldn’t stand how my parents would treat me when they realised I had lost my virginity, especially to rape. I was going to be considered as damaged goods, so I kept it all to myself and concluded that I had nothing else to lose if I dated him, so I did.

In the beginning of the relationship he treated me badly, forcing himself on me whenever he was in the mood; whether I wanted it or not when he had to get down, he had to get down. This continued for some months till he forced himself again on me one afternoon when I was ill, the pain was too much for me that in the struggle I tore his clothes and injured his hands. After he had finished he changed his clothes and travelled leaving me crying on the balcony, he didn’t call for months. I heard so many stories from his room mate telling my friends that he had a girlfriend and I was just a side chick and in fact that I was the one who was throwing advances to him, that I willing agreed  to be his bedmate. I was shattered and I tried pulling myself back together only for him to return 3 months later calling and telling me he was sorry and he wanted to be serious with me this time and he was for real.

 After many condemnations from my friends I returned to him. Since then he has been caring at least so I thought but one thing still continued; the continuous sexual abuse. It didn’t matter if I was on my period, or I was sick, or even if I was in tears, he would tie my hands and even use the pillow to cover my mouth to prevent people from hearing my voice. When he’s done he becomes sane and he says he is sorry and expects everything to just be fine. Last month, I discovered I was pregnant, my boyfriend took it like a joke asking me to stop being dramatic that it’s a normal thing that girls do all the time. Four days after the abortion even though I was still bleeding, he started demanding for sex. When I refused, he started ranting about how he does things for me and that he gains nothing from me in return. He had his way as usual even after I had told him that it was advisable to desist from sex at this times because my womb was still open and fragile and it could lead to infection.

On Wednesday, he read a chat between  a friend of mine  and I whom I usually share my private issues with and he accosted me angrily.  I tried explaining things to him but he hit me and my lips started bleeding. He ripped off all my clothes, dragged me on the floor to his bathroom in tears, (although this was not the first time it would happen other times he would threaten me with a knife, even though at the end of it all he always says he was joking and didn’t mean it). He washed my body and had sex with me again. After he was done he told me he didn’t see anything wrong in what he had done but that he was sorry though, he has been apologizing since then but at this point I really don’t know what to do. He didn’t even send me a val card, message or even an handkerchief, although he could really be caring at times.
I am quite attractive and I get offers from many other guys outside but I’m scared that they’ll turn out to be worse than he is and maybe they are also just hiding their true intentions. He’s still apologizing and claiming he was under the influence of alcohol and he claims he loves me very much, but I must really say I do not know what to do.

Should I move on? Or should I stay and hope that he’ll change for real this time? Thanks.This article has really changed my views about women Guys learn how to treat women and consider their feeling,if this article has touched you share it to others.
Source:Bella naija.


Wednesday, 27 February 2013

Royal christian Senior Pastor David Adeoye set to wed 2face baby mama.

Some know her as Sunmbo Ajaba, but she is 2face Idibia baby mama,she is set to wed on the 4th of may 2013 to the senior pastor of Christian royal family centre..

Sumbo and david were very close friends as such she handled most of the church events,and their relationship was taken another level  after the demise of his wife at about the end of  2011,She is currently the head of the choir in the church.happy for them.

Linda ikeji now on Nokia as an app.

Popular blogger Linda ikeji is now on Nokia as an app,just like you have 2go,Games and other fun accessories on your phone ,You can now  access Linda immediately you get a nokia phone  Linda is really chopping the life of her head!! happy for her.

Tuesday, 26 February 2013

Kim Kardashian Private Part on Display in her leggings.

Kim was spotted yesterday in a pair of leggings and the shape of her vagina showing,Don't really understand her motive,she is not letting anything stop her from flaunting any and everything,But Breezy  should hold this Babe before Guys move her  into one corner and  do her  *well* lol.

Wednesday, 20 February 2013

Miss Big,Bold and Beutiful Unilag

The contest for Miss Big,Bold and Beutiful has been won and Miss Curves and Mr Macho more Gists and photos coming your way.

Friday, 15 February 2013

Goldie Dies on Valentine 's day



Breaking News: Goldie Mysteriously Dies On Valentine's Day


Former Big Brother housemate and sensational singer, Goldie Harvey is dead.

News of the death of the sensational artiste, who was a housemate at the Big Brother Africa in 2012, broke on Thursday night, throwing the Nigerian entertainment world and the larger public into mourning.
According to reports, Goldie, who just returned from the Grammy awards in US, Thursday night, suddenly fell ill and was taken to the Reddington Hospital, Victoria Island , where she died a few hours after, in the arms of her close friend, Denrele Edun.

“She was full of life upon her return, but suddenly, something went tragically wrong,” a source, said.
When our correspondent tried to reach Edun, his phone was switched off.

But when a call was also put through to another artiste, Essence, she confirmed the incident, even as she wept profusely.

Goldie’s management announced on her Facebook page and on her twitter handle, Thursday night, “It is with heavy heart that I have to inform you all that Goldie passed this night shortly after arriving Lagos from LA. May her soul rest in the eternal peace of the Lord – Admin!!”
Her reps confirmed the news on her Facebook/Twitter page:
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Susan Oluwabimpe Harvey was born in the early 1980s to very educated and successful parents.
The first of four kids, Goldie attended the Green Springs Montessori Primary School and St. John’s College, Palm Groove, in Lagos.

Her music career remotely kicked off at the University of Sunderland where she was admitted to study Business Management.

Goldie was signed on to Kennis Music in 2010.
A few months later, she released her acclaimed debut titled, ‘Gold’.
Her hit songs include ‘You Know It’, ‘Jawo Jawo’ and DTMB (Don’t Touch My Body).

Goldie has so far received a total of 10 awards, including Exquisite Lady of the year, Best Female Artiste award and City People Best Female Artiste of the year.

She has also been inducted as a Federal Celebrity Special Marshal, alongside other notable Nigerian Celebrities. The Law Students Society of the Obafemi Awolowo University recently issued her an Award for Musical Excellence under the category of Best Female Artiste of the Year. She has also been conferred a United Nations Youth Ambassador for Peace by the Federal Government.
Goldie became the final celebrity to exit the BBA7 star game house in 2012 as the 3rd runner up.We pray that the Almighty God gives the family and Friends of Goldie the fortitude to beae the loss.SOURCE:NAIJ.COM

Photos from Finance pool party:all for your enjoyment as i promised.

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Thursday, 14 February 2013

larry and andre blaiz

Larry and andre blaiz on a chilling,Big boy tinz.

Hot or not.

Popular and sexy Unilag Mc rocking the red carpet at the Gidi youths awards.

Miss Abiodun then and now.

THEN
NOW
I Know that you would ask what is my business,but this babe Don step up well,well..

Miss ABIODUN Again..

Miss Abiodun in the bar with a friend,the babe don clear table.but i still like her outfit can someone please tell me the name.

Hot or not,miss Abiodun.

Hot or not Miss Abiodun Ayorinde in her ....i know even know the designer of the Outfit,but she certainly looked hot in her outfit,you need to have seen this babe in  finance's pool party.

Sulcata entertainment set to Rock unilag,Valentine tinz.

Sulcata entertainent is set to rock unilag as it presents its MMM Party(Meet,Match and Make)party at the Ember Creek: at Victoria Island,the party promises to be fun as there are lot of things on the line up all for your Fun, is  also a valentine special which is  going to host 23 universities in  one Place DA ember creek it is sure going to be fun.Let's go there and feel the Frenzy.

The Finance Paparazzi Pool party.

The finance pool party of the department of finance went down yesterday the 13th of february 2013,in one of the most sort after Clubs in lagos,THE House J the party was  attended by the 400 LEVEL finance students, more  gists and pictures coming your way.

Friday, 8 February 2013

Miss Obioma Isiwu at the MBGN Contest.



Unilag Big girl and Miss Tourism  at the just concluded MBGN contest poses in sexy bikinis,Mehnnn.... her waist dey there,where IYANYA Dey  LOL.

Thursday, 7 February 2013

Law Babe:Omoti Neni poses in sexy photos with a friend.


Ahead of Valentine:Monalisa omoborion afraid Valentine heart robbers,

If  you dont know her,She is Doyeness of fashion,and Unilag Big girl Monalisa Omoborion A lady with beauty and brains,she is a student of the university of lagos of the department of Economics.,ahead of valentine she said she is afraid heart robbers check out her tweet:
  
RT : Pls don't boo my boo dis vals oooooooo. Go nd get urs pls
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Wednesday, 6 February 2013

University of lagos Don Professor kola Rasheed Ojikutu appointed as memeber of the Governing council.




The Head of the Department of Actuarial Science and Insurance in the Faculty of Business Administration, University of Lagos, Professor Rasheed Kola Ojikutu has been appointed member of the Governing Council of Federal University of Agriculture, Umudike.

Professor Ojikutu’s appointment came on the heels of the recent reconstitution of Governing Councils of four Federal Universities by the President, Dr. Goodluck Ebele Azikiwe Jonathan.

Born on April 22, 1953, Professor Rasheed Kola Ojikutu is an alumnus of the University of Madras where he obtained his First Degree (First Class) and Masters Degree with a CGPA of 4.98 in statistics. He proceeded to the Lagos State University where he obtained a Doctoral Degree in 2004. He also holds a C. Stat from the Royal Statistical Society, London (2003).

The renowned scholar is a Fellow of the Council of the Institute for Operations Research of Nigeria and Association of Investment Advisers and Portfolio Managers (formerly Association of Pension Funds of Nigeria).

He is also a member of several international bodies including the International Association for Statistical Computing, Netherlands (2003); International Statistical Institute, Netherlands (2003); International Association for Statistical Education, Netherlands (2003); International Society for Statistical Sciences, Pakistan (2007); International Union for the Scientific Study in Population, France (2009) as well as the Statistics and Probability African Society (2010),

Professor Ojikutu is happily married and blessed with children. Happy for you sir
source:www.unilag.edu.ng